RIGHT WORDS 

Most of us are facing issues in relationships, at work places and in any communication sector, cause of words we use or the tone while we use the words. Many a times it so happens that we wanted to say or convey something and because of tone and harsh words we land up conveying something else this happens as during this time our emotions and feelings inside are working higher. May it be a feeling of anger or a fear of making mistake.

This can be overcome by alertness cause if alertness is lost we land up into a big mess for ourselves as we are into overconfidence. To explain it would like to give you examples; when we are going to give a speech for the first time or we are going to go for an interview or going to make a call to speak to someone special we rehearse so many times and keep our alertness in the words which we are using and due to this alertness we mostly overcome a first time happening situation and attain the expected results but gradually we become confident about it and we let the situations flow. But gradually this gets into overconfidence and also we develop an attitude that now I possess it and I may not lose it ever.

These kind of situations is commonly seen in our relationships we forget that to build it we used so many words with full alertness but now as we know it's our possession we speak anything and spoil it by our attitude of taking things for granted we think it's permanent and can never be lost that's the mistake we make coz achieving is easy but maintaining is difficult.

To work and improvise on words use the things below:

Think well before uttering:

We generally hurry up and speak something which might be not harsh according to us but it is harsh for someone else. Before saying something one should always place yourself in the place of the other and then use right words which would give a better understanding to the other.

Take a pause:

Pause is very important before saying something as it helps us to analyze the situation on a whole. After analyzing with the help of the right words we can get a better result in the approach.

Check upon your emotions:

One should always check upon their emotions before uttering anything. If we are drowning in emotions such as anger or fear , the words coming out of our mouth will never give right result rather it would ruin or transfer our emotion to the other leading to destruction.

Right listening:

Before answering it is very important to listen completely. Listening should not be to answer rather it should be to actually hear the person and after listening understand and accept and later if required answer as if you are viewing the situation as a third person.