July 11, 2021 By Rupall Shah
Love has always been given so many definitions by people . Its a vast ocean in just one word . But today its actually lost . It has become a very casual trend to just say 'I love you' . Its just taken as a temporary reaction towards your liking .
Definitely its very important to understand true meaning of love . Love never happens at first sight . You just feel a connection at first sight . Love is a gradual process which may take years to develop . Its a feeling which keeps increasing as the time passes by . If it's deteriorating then its not true love , its a conditioned love . It was a convenience that was happening , because now he/she is not doing something which one used to do you don't feel that feeling any more .
If it's love it will never end even if your loved one changes. As love remains the same with every change if it's true . One feels like giving limitlessly rather than wanting to receive . There are lesser complaints and more understanding . Even if there are complaints they automatically dissolve when understood calmly . Its a magic like feeling . The presence of the person energizes your soul .
The trust level is that high that the person doesn't have to explain their intentions when their actions fail due to situations . This can't be build in one glance it takes years of going together . Most relationships fail as their grip loses during hard times . As that is the time when one has to hold each other tightly and even if one is unable to understand its just a time to be passed by . As with time and togetherness everything heals with its true understanding .
If one is in relationship one has to accept that good and bad times are part of their life . But their togetherness is the strength to surpass these times . So most important is to understand how to tackle the dark times of relationship . I would like to help you with few tips that would help you to maintain your relationship in dark times
• Listen not to answer :
One has to give a ear to each other's point of view not to reply them back but to understand their feelings or opinions
• Hug each other :
Sometimes when matters are getting worst , and understanding things are hard , hugging each other releases the emotions of each other which would make things lighter and build that bond required to tackle .
• Communicate after calming oneself but without delaying the matter:
Right mindset is very important for right communication when there are hard times of relationship but also too much of delaying in settling emotions inside you may make situation more worst in the other .
• Small gestures of love:
Try to make other feel special by expressing your emotion through simple gestures that your loved one may adore . For eg, cooking a special dish and conveying your sorry through it with a simple note , sending flowers with sorry note etc .
• Connect with a relationship counsellor:
lf things are not managed by above ideas then delaying too much may build deeper cracks which may lead to breakup or divorces. To avoid this just a few sessions may help you to overcome the situation and keep you together
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Regards
Rupall Shahh
(Lifechanger)