October 19, 2021 By Rupall Shah
Love is a very important feel to understand . Its mostly misunderstood by most of the people . Love is an essential emotion of any relationship ,may it be of mother and child , father and child , husband and wife , girlfriend and a boyfriend or between two friends or even brother and sister . We many a times say that we love a person selflessly and then become demanding too from a relationship . Is it love then ?
If there is love there is a deep understanding too about the other person . There is trust and a feel of security . It is never conditioned . We all have heard this famous saying "Love thy neighbour as thyself" . It means you should love someone as you love yourself. Are we following this mantra in true sense or we facing issues in it ?
Lets understand some common problems faced in love and lets understand how to deal with them :
1)Before judging or creating doubt or insecurity put yourself in their place to understand . If still you feel its hard to do that ask the other in a subtle and calm state .
2)Other complaint mostly heard is you are not being ever understood . This clearly states you are having an expectation . Expecting in a relationship is very common but always check upon yourself that is that expectation benefitting both of you or just you . If its just you then its again a selfish motto.
3)We have generally seen that we try to gift someone in special occasions . Inspite of gifting them what you thought is the best , they are not happy . Do you know why this happens? cause we gift from our thoughts not the way , they would like . So it doesn't cherish them and we feel demotivated. So important is to understand the others liking and wishes and gift them accordingly to make your efforts worthy.
4) Common mistakes we repeatedly do with the person we love which irritates them the most . Then we expect them to understand . But repetition of anything develops a mindset of disrespect towards the others feelings . So kindly observe the likes and dislikes, note it down if unable to remember and try to be concious about it to be the best individual with the other.
5 ) In loved one 's low time be with the person , be a listener and try to understand their emotions , rather than giving heartless comments .Cause may be it might have been easy for you but it cannot be easy for the other. Give warm hugs , shoulder to cry and a caring ear to listen.
6) Never compare your loved one with the other as every individual is unique and they can never be like the other . Appreciate their mastery into something and give a helping hand to their weakness.
Real love is a compassion . A feeling which is always the best for the other . Where you keep your loved one and their feelings on more priority and always make combined decisions so that a true bond is developed. If both the people in relationship would put the same kind of effort definitely you will have the best relationship with truest love .
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