October 30, 2020 By Rupall Shah
Most of us in our lives have gone through pain , problems which has moulded us into a certain individual we are today . Whenever this individual comes across anything ,he/she thinks and handles according to whatever one has gone through in the past . But many a times it so happens that you blunder up or create a mess due to your this kind of dealings in the present . Lessons that we have learnt in the past are learnings but it doesn't demand you to judge another in the present life according to that. Lessons of the past are for awareness. Most of our dealings are not according to what is actually there in the present but are according to our pains of the past . This will often create gaps in relationships in personal or professional front . We all know that how important to be righteous as we dont get trials in our live like in plays ...our every action or word counts .
So lets learn how to deal with it
• To avoid this it is very important to observe without judgement . Do not judge according to the words they come up with. See it as a whole in their actions .
• Observance should be followed by communication. Communication is not only verbal but one needs to observe the non verbal part too.
• Third most important thing is to sit quietly , close your eyes and feel the person for whom you are creating a judgement , whether it's true or not .
• Inspect your emotions while you are judging someone , you not in your normal state will always put you into a wrongly noted mess which will make you regret later .
• Meditate as it's the most powerful tool which will always help you with write actions .
Life is a new process every day , the more we walk light heartedly everyday the more it will be promising and welcoming.
God bless you with the one