Are we working for what we need or more?

1. We all talk big at times we should be satisfied with what we have . Its a key to happiness and peace . But do we actually are ?? For example we need ten rupees and we are not even satisfied with 100 to improve ones social status , standard and many such material things we dont even actually need. In the course of time we forget that what actually makes us happy as we are caught in the vicious circle of material word . We become so  confused personalities that we start developing a lot of anger , frustration , anxieties whose reason we are unable to figure out . Question ponders our mind that why I am suddenly getting all this from no where.

To explain what I am actually trying to convey in this blog I want to share you an example:

I came across a beautiful incident yesterday which I want to share with you which actually lighted up the idea of writing this to you .

A girl came on the car door and knocked who must be around 5 or 6 years of age to sell flowers . There was a sparkle in her eye n looking at her I felt like buying flowers from her . I picked up a rose and asked her how many she wants to sell it to me. Out of her innocence she told me i want to give you one. I felt in my heart only one and my heart overwhelmed to ask her whom you will give this money . She said my mother who is sitting there . We all know what was their need. She could have told me take all the flowers but she said one . That was true satisfaction . She was happy in selling that one flower.

With age and circumstances we actually loose what is our need and we get caught up into material life which is actually an endless cycle , where our true destinations are lost and then we get so tired that we dont have energy to walk back to the path of true self. We fail not only with ourselves but also with our loved ones ...coz they need us not our lost selves. Many relationships are lost which needed more time than your money .

So if you feel you too are caught up into this kind of situation , kindly take a pause and take up a check on yourself by asking these few questions;

• Where I want to reach and why ?

• Wherever I want to reach, is it going to satisfy me later ?

• Are the loved ones for whom I am working so hard are actually happy ?

•  Are my loved ones trapped too following my pattern ?

 

If you feel you are caught up into this trap and have a desire to get out , sit down and study all your circumstances and initially cut down things one by one . Please dont be harsh on oneself and take big steps .

Join up with something that excites you so that slowly you are drawn towards your purpose .

Daily introspect within you to figure out your actual identity.

The most important is discuss with your loved ones about the changes you want to bring in as they have been used to with your old self and sudden changes fear them .

You can check your progress by your reactions towards the circumstances.

If all the above steps don't help you connect with the life coach by pressing on www.lifechanger.rupallshah.comor dial 9920477773 to book an appointment

to make your lives come on track .This will not only benefit you but all your loved ones too.

Regards

Rupall Shahh

Lifechanger